Confidence

Confidence

Every day is a new day in our life. There is much to do today. The early morning sun tells us to start things freshly and forget our past. In various walks of life our confidence level affects the way we behave and perform the work. Confidence is a key to survive in this world. It is the only key to win the race in every walk of life. Confidence in one’s own capabilities with great efforts helps one to achieve unthinkable heights. But many times this basic element of confidence is missing in us. As a result of lack of confidence we perform below our capacity. Be it in a public speech, singing, viva in your college or in an interview or say even on the evening before your exams.

The fear or less confidence is going to get us no where. The confidence inside us is going to take us places. This is because with confidence we can put our thoughts in to words in a better and pleasing way. Instead of living in these unending moments of fear and thoughtless situation it is better if we present ourselves with the skills we have with the help of good confidence. With confidence we can represent the finger points of our personality in a nice manner. There should be a limit to confidence too. Above this it leads to over confidence which is harmful. Our performance spoils whenever the seed of ego grows in us. We then imagine and make big talks just to maintain our ego. So guys don’t let the seed of ego even grow in your mind, as this seed should be used only for you to live up to your requirements.

Confidence is all about being cool, calm and confidence. So guys do you have it in you ?  if you think you don’t, boost up yourselves as your mind is your greatest mentor. You are your greatest helper. HAVE CONFIDENCE  !!!!!! 

A Lesson in Life

A Lesson in Life

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. illness, injury, love lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses, or relationships, life would be like a smooth, straight, flat road to nowhere.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being awake to who you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may ever be able to experience it again.

Talk to the people you have never talked to before and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell your self, no one else will believe in you either.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

5 ways to stay focused on your goals

5 ways to stay focused on your goals

Life is full of problems. To achieve our goals with me.given you the 5 steps to achieve any goal in our life.

1.   Finish what you started :-

   

You probably have heard the saying. “So many things to do, and not enough time to them.” even though that may be true , you still have to complete them all ,especially if these things help you to reach your goals. To make it easier for you, just take one thing you have to do and complete that task until is done. When it is done, you will fell a sense of achievement and it will motivate you to move on your next task.

2.   Organize to make things easy and simple : -

Take a moment to put things in order. If you have too many things to do and you are confused. Then, make three (3) categories of the things like ….

(A) The most important tasks.

(B) The less important tasks.

(C) The least important task than start doing the a                

      category task first.

Doing things like this in other areas of your life will help you keep things in priority and keep you focused on your goals.

3.   Use your 3^rd eye. see the things from other side. :-

If you find yourself at times having a negative attitude, you must realize that the way you look at things can make all the difference when it comes to reaching your goals. Even when obsiacles stand in your way, maintain a positive attitude, not a negative one and believe that things can get better; this will help you stay on track in reaching your goals.

4.    Have patience :-

Everything in life will take time. This goes for the goals you set for your self. When you set goals, you should set two types of goals. A Short term goal, such as 6 months and also a long term goal of 3 years, you must realize that you are not going to reach your long term goals in 2 weeks. Whatever your goals may be, only through hard work, determination and keeping your self focused, this is the way you will eventually reach your goals.

5.   Keep a company of successful people :-

Keep a company of successful people, students and businessmen. By that way we get motivation to achieve our goals. So if you want to stay focused on your goals and achieve them, Follow these 5 points given by me and put them in to action today.